If I asked you how you look at yourself, what would you say? Are you beautiful? Are you frumpy? Are you old? Are you fair? What would you say?
I believe you must mold your thoughts about yourself before you can change how others think of you. It isn't about who people say you are. It's almost entirely about who you say you are.
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