It's about your inner self. Power is not about how much control you can exercise over someone else. It is about how much control you can exercise over your own life. Be high powered at home, with the woman in the mirror. When you accomplish that, nothing else is impossible.
I read a wonderful post today that reminded me of the reason I'm not married. I will be one day, one day when I have conquered myself. Until then, I'm not marrying or having children.