I'm entering into a new era in my life. It's called coupledom. I'm trying to learn what I can so that I don't ever have to worry about going backwards later. I've heard people say things about loving and being in love with someone. Everyone treats it like two different things. However, in my quest to love the right way, I've not been able to discern the difference.
I love Evan. I'm in love with Evan. To me that says the same thing. I've not been able to find that dividing line. However, we have passion and romance. He respects the strength I have as a woman, but still allows me to be tired or weak. I appreciate all that he is. We adore one another. So, does that make me love or am I IN love? Which is better?